What do woman look for in men?

ill be honest im about to be 20 and have only had 4 gfs in my adolescence, My father is a Cold hearted man, he calls me ugly and that ill "never find the right woman" Hes is right about one thing, i am dressed ugly(by society's standards) I basically dress like Kurt cobain from nirvana(p.s i love nirvana) Im 6,4 and have a very kind heart..... but woman confuse me So i ask, what do you look for in men? ........i really dont want to die alone :(